In this episode we’re talking about approaching group sex when you’re in an established dyad. A few of the topics we cover are: Why you might want to have group sex, Negotiating group sex, Common trouble spots, and answering all the awesome group sex questions you sent in.
We often hear the word “fair” used to describe our dating relationships. Our definition of fairness is often vague, because most of us use the word to describe a sort of ideal, healthy dating relationship without ever stopping to consider what “fair” actually means. Since we view it more as an ideal than a skill we never stop to consider what “fair” actually means. That’s a problem, because if you want to find, get, and keep quality partners, fairness is a skill you have to master.
A handout for those who attended our Bubbles class at DO this weekend (and a bit of helpful info for those who didn’t.
Venturing on a new adventure with your partner can be an exciting thing. It can also cause some stress and a bit of strain.
Since we have many readers who are new to the concept of polyamory, I wanted to answer the question we are constantly asked when teaching about poly, which is “I’m interested, but how do I get started?” I have done my best to both answer the question and condense the answer into a manageable length…