When you’re polyamorous, you want each of your relationships to have the freedom to grow.
But it might feel like there’s something between you. Some ONE between you.
Sometimes that person is real. But other times that person standing between you isn’t a person at all. It’s a memory. A memory of your past relationship(s). Because breaking up with someone doesn’t mean that they’re gone from your life. And if you’re letting your past relationships affect your current ones, then you’re still dating your ex.
So, how do you stop letting your past relationships affect your new ones? How do you put your past (and your exes) behind you and build thriving relationships?