When your relationship isn’t going well, the first thing people do is spend more time together.
Have you tried that yourself? I mean, it IS what everyone else is telling you to do.
But if you’re like most people, you likely found that more time together just means more time to argue. More time to sit across the room from each other engrossed in your phone. More time to reflect on how much spending time together SUCKS.
And meanwhile, the problems in your relationship keep getting worse.
Do you want to know why “spend more time together” is horrible advice? And what you should do instead?
Listen to this episode.