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#119: It’s Not About Jealousy

Let me ask you a question: What’s the problem in your relationship right now? What’s that one thing that’s keeping you from the thriving, loving relationship(s) you deserve?

Is it feeling horribly jealous and worried that you’re going to lose your place in your partner’s life? Heated arguments that seem to consume all your time and energy?

Feeling like the passion and connection is gone and you might as well be a roommate? Not getting to be your authentic self?

Something else?

What’s that one thing for you?

No matter what your answer is, that’s not the real problem. In fact, 99% of people (including experts) don’t understand what’s REALLY going on.

Underneath the surface, the real problem is something we call your relationship composition. And unless you get this right you’ll never have the loving, secure relationship you want.


But when you understand relationship composition, that’s when your relationships are able to reach their potential.

Since this is such an important concept, we decided to unpack it for you. Let’s dive in.

Is it feeling horribly jealous and worried that you’re going to lose your place in your partner’s life? Heated arguments that seem to consume all your time and energy?

Feeling like the passion and connection is gone and you might as well be a roommate? Not getting to be your authentic self?

Something else?

What’s that one thing for you?

No matter what your answer is, that’s not the real problem. In fact, 99% of people (including experts) don’t understand what’s REALLY going on.

Underneath the surface, the real problem is something we call your relationship composition. And unless you get this right you’ll never have the loving, secure relationship you want.


But when you understand relationship composition, that’s when your relationships are able to reach their potential.

Since this is such an important concept, we decided to unpack it for you. Let’s dive in.

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TOF Founders Cassie and Josh Fuller are professional relationship coaches. Over the last twelve years, they’ve helped polyamorous clients all over the world overcome their struggles and create thriving relationships. We’re here to answer one question: “How can you build the relationship(s) of your dreams, even if nothing has ever worked before?” If you want to know the answer, subscribe to our podcast and we’ll see you there.

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