#024: Dying Alone Sucks (Here’s How to Avoid It) with Robert Kandell

#024: Dying Alone Sucks (Here’s How to Avoid It) with Robert Kandell

We talk to a LOT of kinky singles, and one of the biggest fears they have is dying alone. In fact, it’s one of the biggest fears we partnered people have to. In a society where we have a thousand Facebook friends friends and can hook up by simply swiping right, why are more people single later in life now than at any time in our history? And what can you do to create amazing relationships and avoid being a statistic? Just in time for Valentine’s Day we’re talking to Robert Kandell about how to find and build meaningful relationships in a world where they seem increasingly rare. Buckle up for an amazing interview.

#021: Disabilities, Gay Boots, and Lesbian Porn

#021: Disabilities, Gay Boots, and Lesbian Porn

When is it time to take a fantasy out of your head and into the bedroom? Why do straight chicks like lesbian porn? Is it racist to prefer partners with a certain skin tone? Can a Dom with disabilities find a sub? On our first episode of 2018 Cassie and Rigel are going to be answering the rest of your questions that were lost in the upside down. Plus: We reminisce about our kinky NYE party, Cassie kicks a girl with her rainbow boots, and we talk about if you should tell a date your penis size.

#015: 9 Brutally Honest Reasons You Suck at Dating

#015: 9 Brutally Honest Reasons You Suck at Dating

Our relationships are some of the most crucial things in our lives. Few of us want to be lonely. But dating is an acquired skill, and some folks just have a have hard time getting it down. On today’s episode Cassie puts on her dating coach hat and discusses (rants about) the nine reasons most people suck at dating, and gives some tips on how to avoid these pitfalls.

#014: Help! Our Teenage Daughter is Telling Everyone About Our Sex Life

#014: Help! Our Teenage Daughter is Telling Everyone About Our Sex Life

What’s the right way to approach someone at a kink event without getting nervous (would naked sword fighting help)? Why do people on dating sites send absurd messages? Should you stay friends with a partner who has repeatedly broken your rules? Should you tell your SO that you cheated on them… two years after the fact? On today’s episode we answer these questions and more.

#012: She Said Yes! Our Triad Gets Engaged.

#012: She Said Yes! Our Triad Gets Engaged.

How do you make your vanilla wedding a little kinky? What do you do when your wife can’t stand your girlfriend? How do you find a “legit” Femdom? Are all poly people sluts? On today’s Q and A episode, Cassie and Rigel answer these questions and more. PLUS: Cassie and Rigel propose to their girlfriend, Rigel tells his partners he caught an STI, and Siri makes an unexpected appearance on the show.