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#112: Can one person change a relationship?

How many people does it take to transform a relationship?

It’s one of the most common — and vital — questions we get.

And if you’re arguing, or feeling alone, or have fallen out of love, it’s a question you might be asking yourself. 

One partner is ALWAYS more motivated to make changes. But what if it seems like you’re the only one willing to work to turn things around?

Truth is, there are a lot of reasons that happens:

Perhaps they’re not feeling the same pain that you are every day…

Or you’ve recently discovered polyamory, and they’re hoping your desire will go away if they ignore it long enough…

Or they’ve already put in a ton of effort, and they need to see you step up before they put in more work…

Or the biggest challenges in your relationship are coming from YOU…

Whatever the reason, if you find yourself in that situation, you have a choice. You either give up on the relationship you’ve invested in, or you try to fix the relationship on your own.

But that raises the question: CAN one person transform a relationship?

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