If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, it’s easy to blame a lot of problems on your metamour.
Taking time away from you. Keeping you from getting the connection and intimacy you need. You might even worry that they’ll take your place or steal your partner away.
But here’s the truth: If your metamour is in control of your relationship then either you or your partner is doing something wrong.
The power in your relationship doesn’t lie with another person. It lies with you and your partner. And when your relationship is solid no one can tear you apart.