#028: Tops, Switches, and Submissives. Oh My!

Do switches make better tops? Is Dom/Top drop even real? Are there slaves or submissives that are untrainable? Will learning to become a Master save my relationship?

On today’s episode, Cassie and Rigel tackle your questions, and a TON of them are BDSM related!

PLUS: We recommend some butt plugs, a listener puts Cassie and Rigel on the spot, and we have the longest blooper reel EVER.

Sit down, strap up, and get ready for the ride.

Questions in this episode

What turns Cassie and Rigel on?
Is it okay to send someone who is ghosting me a nastygram?
Do Switches make better Tops?
Where can I find someone interested in a kinky MFF threesome?
Are there slaves or submissives that are untrainable?
Do I have to hang out with my boyfriends meta-metamours?
Are sexuality, gender, and relationship fluidity becoming more prevalent?
Is Dom/Top drop even real? If so, What are things I can do to deal with it if it?
How do I help my husband find dates?
Can I save my marriage by becoming a Master?
What kind of butt plugs do we recommend?

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