TOF Reviews: Tantus Black Widow Harness

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A while back Tantus launched their Connoisseur line, a unique and mesmerizing line of strap-on harnesses made from leather with designs like tribal markings, a nurse cross, and (my favorite) spider webs. These harnesses are just badass awesome looking! So when I found out I was going to be reviewing the Black Widow harness I nearly jumped out of my pants with excitement. I love everything to do with arachnids and spider webs and there is not much in this world that makes me happier than wearing a cock!

When my Black Widow harness arrived it came in a plastic bag with its very own hanger. The hanger comes with directions for assembling the harness and is super handy for storing the harness when not in use. The harness itself was easy to assemble and was beautiful. The red color in the web is vibrant and the stitching work is remarkable. The leather is shiny and thick and durable. This does make the harness not as soft and comfy as some fabric harnesses but it also allows for very easy cleanup and longevity of the harness.

The Connoisseur line has two types of harnesses, the Nurse, Amazon, and EZ all use Velcro to hold the waist on and have a large leather strap that goes between the legs. Many people have described it as wearing an oversized leather thong.

Examples of the other styles of harnesses are the Black Widow and Nevada. They work with standard rings and buckles. There is a little more work to getting the harness on but this allows for a more precise fit and versatility. These harnesses can fit people with 30-50 inch” / 76-127 cm hips. The only real downfall to the harness is that if you are someone on the smaller size like I am, the extra strap can become annoyingly long in the back. I am a 30 waist and I plan to take my straps to get trimmed so they do not hang in my way. These harnesses also come with the ability for you to interchange your rubber D-rings and make it possible to use a variety of different toys. Yay, for cock versatility! Best of all these harnesses leave your private parts exposed so you are able to get yours, too. This allows you to be fingered, penetrated, licked, etc. without having to take your harness off in between activities. There is nothing better than making your partner suck your fake cock and then smothering them with your pussy! Don’t believe me? Try it.

I have used my Black widow harness for vaginal, anal, and multi-partner strap-on play! In all these experiences the harness did not cease to amaze. During anal play the Black Widow was great for providing support and allowing me to have the control I needed to ease into my partner’s ass gently. On the flip side of that when using it for vaginal sex it was sturdy and held up to the vigorous movements my partner needed to reach her climax.

I was super excited to use the Black Widow harness for a sexual experience I had been eager to try out; I wanted to be penetrated while penetrating a female partner. As soon as the opportunity arose I made this happen! I adjusted the straps of the harness so it was higher on my belly line and laid on my back with my knees up, I had my female partner sit down on my cock and my male partner came from behind her and put his cock inside me. It was awesome. He was able to touch her and rub up on her; she was able to make out with me and feel my cock and I was able to feel him inside me. It was a multi-partner sex win made possible by the Black Widow!

If you can’t tell by now, I am pretty thrilled with all the Black Widow harness has had to offer. Even the cleanup and care are super easy too. To care for the harness make sure to keep the hanger so it’s super easy to store. For cleaning, the Tantus website recommended a watered down solution of white vinegar or castile soap on a clean, lint-free cloth, then wipe dry.

All in all the Black Widow is a great harness for the price, easy to care for and super-villain awesome looking.

Price: $ 144.99
Rating: 4.5/5

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Cassie

Cassie

Cassie is polyamorous, dominant, queer, and a full-time relationship coach. Since 2008 she’s been helping poly folks create extraordinary relationships while a falling back in love with each other. Cassie has been featured in publications such as The Huffington Post, The Atlantic, and Men’s and Women’s Health, and has taught at conferences and colleges across the US. Cassie is the co-founder of Touch of Flavor and co-host of the TOF podcast. Cassie lives in Maryland with her nesting partners Amanda and Josh, their teenaged son, a lovable but goofy Great Dane, and a cat with a bad attitude.

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