#009: Taboo Fantasies, Unicorn Hunting, and Sex After Kids

How do you make a taboo fantasy a reality? How can a couple find their third? What should you do when your toddler has destroyed your sex life? On today’s episode, Cassie and Rigel answer these questions and more.

PLUS: An (awesome) mom whose son has recently come out to her as gay and kinky reaches out for advice.

Questions in this episode

My son came out to me gay and kinky. Help!
Ways to educate yourself when both you and your partner are new to BDSM
Finding classes, socials, and events using Fetlife.
How do we add a third to our existing couple?
Unicorn hunters have a bad rap. Here’s why.
Am I still kinky if I haven’t been actively involved in BDSM lately?
How to have a fulfilling sex/kink life with a toddler in the house.

Resources Mentioned

Home is Where The Hump Is: Having Sex When Privacy Is a Concern
Know your STI risks
ScarletTeen
Fetlife
Find Free STI Clinics near you
NCSF Kink Aware Professionals
MAsT (Masters And slaves together)
When Fairness Matters, and When It Doesn’t
#006: How to be a Kickass Poly Parent

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