Category: Sex

Kink

Flowchart: How to Evaluate a Scene Gone Wrong

This is a flowchart I created about how to evaluate a scene gone wrong. I created the initial version for Fetlife during a discussion about conceptualizing kink as a contact sport. I posted this revised version on social media and got a surprisingly enthusiastic response.

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Dating

These Eleven Immature Dating Habits Are Killing Your Chances

When someone we’re dating decides to move on it’s easy to blame them for the end of the relationship. It’s much harder to acknowledge the truth that our own bad habits are often at fault. Here are eleven immature dating habits that you should start breaking today:

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Dating

The Types of Men You Meet in Online Dating

Online dating can be a minefield for anyone. When you’re kinky, and you identify yourself as such, you get a wide variety of messages: hilarious, irritating, flattering, confusing and just plain gross. Most of the men on these sites fall into one of five categories. I have written up these Online Dating Archetypes and their typical messages here for your entertainment.

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Review

TOF Reviews: Tantus Black Widow Harness

When I found out I was going to be reviewing the Tantus Black Widow harness I nearly jumped out of my pants with excitement. I love everything to do with arachnids and spider webs and there really is not much in this world that makes me happier than wearing a cock!

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How To Get What You Want In The Bedroom

In this video Cassie discusses how to be more assertive in the bedroom and get YOUR sexual needs fulfilled.

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