#099: Ninety-nine Problems But a Third Ain’t One

How do you tell a mono partner you want to be poly without making them feel inadequate? How much should you tell your partners about each other? After a spectacular break-up, how can you navigate sharing a community with your ex? In this live episode of the TOF podcast, we answer 13 of your questions about polyamory and relationships.

Questions in this episode

  • Can you be polyamorous in a relationship with a monogamous person?
  • How do you tell a mono partner you want to be poly without making them feel inadequate?
  • What is a lovership?
  • How do you deal with jealousy?
  • How much should you tell your partners about each other?
  • Do we recommend that polyamorous folks have a “primary” relationship?
  • Is it okay to suggest polyamory to someone that is in a monogamous relationship?
  • What is a “nesting” relationship?
  • How do you ask a third person to join your relationship?
  • How should you handle your first poly/kink breakup?
  • What do you do when your partner wants to get married and close the relationship?
  • After a spectacular break-up, how can you navigate sharing a community with your ex?
  • What’s the best way to bring up an embarrassing habit to your partner(s)

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