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#062: Living an Authentic Life with Andy Vargo

What’s the thing that you’re hiding from everyone around you? Maybe you have a partner who’s the “dirty little secret.” Perhaps your church doesn’t know your kinky. Or maybe — like Andy Vargo — you’re gay and spend every waking moment terrified that someone will find you out.

It’s OK to be who you are. In fact, it’s urgent. In this episode, we talk with Andy Vargo about: How to accept yourself. How to build confidence. How to create your support system. And how to know when it’s time to come out.

PLUS: Andy shares his story about coming out as gay at age 40. Cassie tells her coming out story (which involves a sexual misadventure). And we share some practical tips you can use to build self-confidence every day.

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TOF Founders Cassie and Josh Fuller are professional relationship coaches. Over the last twelve years, they’ve helped polyamorous clients all over the world overcome their struggles and create thriving relationships. We’re here to answer one question: “How can you build the relationship(s) of your dreams, even if nothing has ever worked before?” If you want to know the answer, subscribe to our podcast and we’ll see you there.

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