#058: Swollen Labia, Shitty Submissives, and Poly Bat-Signals

#058: Swollen Labia, Shitty Submissives, and Poly Bat-Signals

How do you find folks for a foursome without coming out to your friends? What’s the secret signal you can use in public to let others know your poly? Should you be worried if your labia are still massively swollen a month after your needle scene? Are you a shitty submissive, or does your dominant just suck? On today’s episode, we answer these questions and more.

#052: Subs! Stop settling for lousy Dominants

#052: Subs! Stop settling for lousy Dominants

On today’s episode, we (a Dom and a sub) are going to tell you the steps you must take when screening a potential Dominant including: determining if you’re compatible (in and out of the bedroom), personality characteristics to look for in Dominant, potential red flags, and more. We also reveal the crucial factor that differentiates good a Dominant from a bad one and tell you how to bypass the BS and learn the truth about potential partners

#047: Cis Men, Craigslist Dating, and Putting The “Amory” in Polyamory

#047: Cis Men, Craigslist Dating, and Putting The “Amory” in Polyamory

This week, we are back with another highly requested Q&A episode! If you submitted your question and it isn’t here, don’t worry as we will be increasing the frequency of q and episodes in the near future. Just a few of the things we get down on in this week’s episode include: where to find a person to date as a couple, if you should break up if you aren’t attracted to your partner, what to do when there are no “benefits” with your friend with benefits, and if we need more “amory” in polyamory.

#036: Poly Myths, the Dominant Perspective, and Hot Mermaid Chicks

#036: Poly Myths, the Dominant Perspective, and Hot Mermaid Chicks

Today’s episode is part one of a two part Q&A, and we love hearing your questions and experiences, keep them coming! We talk about: building a poly-friendly society, the emotions behind jealousy and guilt in open relationships, the biggest myths of monogamy, what to do when a fantasy goes wrong, and intricacies between multiple partners in different power dynamics.