#015: 9 Brutally Honest Reasons You Suck at Dating

October 23, 2017

Our relationships are some of the most crucial things in our lives. Few of us want to be lonely. But dating is an acquired skill, and some folks just have a have hard time getting it down.

In her job as a kinky dating and relationship coach, Cassie has worked with her share of people who can’t seem to win at dating. And she’s noticed something: these folks all share some of the same bad habits that are causing them to fail.

On today’s episode Cassie discusses (rants about) the nine reasons most people suck at dating, and gives some tips on how to avoid these pitfalls.

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Show Notes:

00:01:30 Cassie hates Facebook’s dating quizzes.
00:04:56 Facebook thinks Cassie is too manly to date..
00:09:01 1. You don’t know what you want and what you’re offering.
00:11:58 Do you know what you are offering a potential partner?
00:14:00 2. You’re too picky
00:19:46 3. You’re not picky enough.
00:22:40 You need to be okay with being single to succeed at dating.
00:24:20 4. You’re looking in all the wrong places.
00:28:02 5. You think people will change for you.
00:30:20 Your dating life shouldn’t be an episode of HGTV.
00:30:56 6. You have absurd expectations
00:32:44 Yes, people lie on the internet.
00:34:37 7. You screw up botch the first date.
00:37:28 Complaining about you ex is a red flag.
00:38:55 Oversharing ruins conversation.
00:40:30 A first date is too soon for NRE.
00:43:06 8. You’re not even trying.
00:45:43 9. You ignore good advice.

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