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#111: Dragons, Hidden Kinks, and Honeymoon Chastity

What do you do when your to-be husband’s master denies your request to unlock him on your honeymoon? How can you stop acting like a dick towards your metamour? Are couples looking to date masculine-presenting folks non-existent? In this episode, we answer these questions and more.


  • What do I do when my partner hates my kink? Should I lie?
  • My to-be husband’s master has denied my request to unlock him on our honeymoon. What do I do?
  • How can I stop acting like a dick towards my metamour?
  • My ex-husband hurt my self-esteem. How do I accept compliments from my new fiancé?
  • A prospective dominant wants to play online. Could they blackmail me?
  • Are couples looking to date masculine-presenting folks non-existent?

Resources mentioned

Dragon Vectors by Vecteezy

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