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#021: Disabilities, Gay Boots, and Lesbian Porn

When is it time to take a fantasy out of your head and into the bedroom? Why do straight chicks like lesbian porn? Is it racist to prefer partners with a certain skin tone? Can a Dom with disabilities find a sub? On our first episode of 2018 Cassie and Rigel are going to be answering the rest of your questions that were lost in the upside down.

Plus: We reminisce about our kinky NYE party, Cassie kicks a girl with her rainbow boots, and we talk about if you should tell a date your penis size.

Cassie sitting next to a lake with her super gay boots on.
Cassie’s super gay boots she kicked a hot girl with.

We keep trying to get people to live outside of the box, and Cujo just wants to live in one:

Questions in this episode

  • When is it time to take fantasies out of your head and into the bedroom?
  • How do you get a non-kinky partner interested in kink?
  • My ex-sub is threatening to tell the police I’m a prostitute unless I pay up. What should I do?
  • I’m straight, why do I like lesbian porn?
  • I’m a Dom who wears diapers. Can I find a sub?
  • What’s the fantasy of power exchange vs the reality?
  • I’m only attracted to people with darker skin. Does that make me racist?
  • Would it be ethical to look for an asexual woman?
  • Does size matter?
  • Is it OK to tell someone no before knowing what kind of scene they want to do?

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