The DesireMap is a life-changing tool that allows partners to communicate exactly what they’re in the mood for and how much they want it without saying a word. It keeps the higher sex drive partner from constantly asking for sex and feeling like they’re pressuring their partner, allows the lower sex drive partner to enjoy the activities they’re in the mood for without worrying their partner is going to press for more, and prevents the many opportunities for intimacy that are missed simply because one partner doesn’t know the other was in the mood. In this post, we’re going to walk you step-by-step through how to create a DesireMap of your very own.read more
It’s possible to make wonderful, meaningful connections at a BDSM play party. After all, you’re sure that everyone is kinky, or at least open-minded. You know you’ll find people with compatible tastes in kinky activities. But you’re not sure how to get around to actually approaching anyone there, or how to get someone to go home with you tonight… especially with all the protocols and etiquette surrounding play parties.
Here are some tips to increase your success in hooking up at a play party without getting kicked out… or disappointed the following morning.read more
First dates are plagued with awkward pauses, conversational blunders, and tons of pressure. All you want to do is impress your date, who is someone you barely know.
When you have an ongoing relationship, you have license to mess things up occasionally. Unfortunately, during a first date, you don’t have a large margin for error. If you botch your date, you might not get another chance.
First dates suck. But don’t fret! I’m going to give you seven easy tips you can use to win your next kinky first date.read more
Are you going to die kinky and lonely?
Finding a partner is hard enough in the vanilla world. But it can seem impossible in the kink world. You want to find a quality partner, but you want to find someone who meets your unique needs. It can be hard to know the best path because most of the information out there targets vanilla relationships.
If you find yourself asking yourself: What do I need to know before getting started? Do I have a better chance of meeting someone online or offline? Where do the kinky people hang out? How should I approach a potential partner?
Then this article is for you.read more