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Author: Josh

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KinkPolyamorySex

Our Secret Weapon for Overcoming Mismatched Libidos

The DesireMap is a life-changing tool that allows partners to communicate exactly what they’re in the mood for and how much they want it without saying a word. It keeps the higher sex drive partner from constantly asking for sex and feeling like they’re pressuring their partner, allows the lower sex drive partner to enjoy the activities they’re in the mood for without worrying their partner is going to press for more, and prevents the many opportunities for intimacy that are missed simply because one partner doesn’t know the other was in the mood. In this post, we’re going to walk you step-by-step through how to create a DesireMap of your very own.

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DatingKinkSex

9 Proven Tips For Hooking Up At A Play Party

It’s possible to make wonderful, meaningful connections at a BDSM play party. After all, you’re sure that everyone is kinky, or at least open-minded. You know you’ll find people with compatible tastes in kinky activities. But you’re not sure how to get around to actually approaching anyone there, or how to get someone to go home with you tonight… especially with all the protocols and etiquette surrounding play parties.

Here are some tips to increase your success in hooking up at a play party without getting kicked out… or disappointed the following morning.

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DatingKinkPolyamory

4 Ways Kinksters Ruin the Holidays – LIVE Broadcast

In our first ever LIVE Facebook broadcast we tell some of our own kinky/poly Holiday stories and discuss some tips on how you can avoid ruining your Holidays.

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Dating

7 Tips for Surviving a Kinky First Date

First dates are plagued with awkward pauses, conversational blunders, and tons of pressure. All you want to do is impress your date, who is someone you barely know. Don’t’ fret! I’m going to give you seven easy tips you can use to win your next kinky first date.

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DatingKink

You’re Not Alone: Finding a Kinky Partner

Finding a partner is hard enough in the vanilla world. But it can seem impossible in the kink world. You want to find a quality partner, but you want to find someone who meets your unique needs. Here’s how to find a kinky partner.

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