You have it all… almost.
You’re kinky. You’re smart. You’re successful. And you’re well on the way to having the lifestyle you’ve always pictured.
But the most important piece is missing.
You see, you’re single, or perhaps the perpetual secondary. You feel lonely. And when you try to find a serious partner, the challenges seem endless. You’re constantly worrying that you’re going to be single/looking forever, and maybe you’re even starting to wonder if you’re destined to die alone. And you may sometimes lie awake at night wondering where it all went wrong.
You dream of the day you will find an incredible kinky partner of your own. Someone who’s compatible with your relationship style and kinks. Someone(s) you connect with physically, emotionally, and intellectually. Someone to come home to at the end of the day.
The trouble is you often struggle to see how you could ever find a partner. Dating is hard enough in the vanilla world. Dating when you’re kinky has it’s own slew of challenges. And all of the books, blogs, and other advice you’ve seen so far have gotten you nowhere.
It’s not your fault, and you’re not alone.
Now there’s a solution specifically designed for kinksters who want to build extraordinary romantic relationships. The fact that you’re kinky means that you have the capacity to build a the kind of satisfying and fulfilling relationships most nillas can only fantasize about. You just need the right help to get you there.
You get off work…
You check your favorite dating site. Your inbox has four messages from people YOU would actually want to date. People you already know have the potential for being compatible with your life goals, your kinks, and the type of relationships you want to create.
You send off a few replies. You know exactly what to say to quickly assess compatibility, and to move the conversation into a real-life date. You don’t spend too much time online though, because you have to get ready for tonight’s date with a cute kinkster you met last week.
A couple of hours later…
You pull up at your local Chinese restaurant. You did your homework and picked a place your date likes, so you’ve already scored points before you even walk in the door. The waiter guides you to the booth where your date waits. This is the part where you used to get a knot in the pit of your stomach. Not anymore, because you have the kind of true confidence that comes from knowing how to impress a potential partner while still being authentic.
Dinner is so much fun it almost flies by. The conversation is easy and natural, without those awkward pauses where you’re wondering what to say next. Besides, you know the right questions to ask to really get to know the person sitting across the table from you, and to connect with them on a personal level. You can tell if your date is interested in you and know when… and how… To touch them to build that desire. You happily discover that your date is a surprisingly good kisser.
As your date draws to an end…
You walk outside and get another kiss… and a little more. Because you’ve gotten to know your date well, you decide that you’re interested in pursuing things further. Instead of spending the next week wondering how things went you know how to ask your date flat out if they had a good time and if they want to meet again. They say yes. You go home worry free and knowing exactly where you stand.
Since you already know your date is interested in meeting again, the next few days are exciting rather than stressful. You don’t waste time worrying about if you should be playing hard to get. Instead you put your newfound flirting skills to use. A few texts and a couple of calls later your date isn’t only ready for another encounter with you… they’re craving it. By the end of the week you have a second date on the books, and a play date as well.
Does this sound like the kind of life you’d like to build for yourself?
If so, my Single to Satisfied Program is what you’re looking for. It’s a one-on-one coaching program that teaches you how to easily find, confidently attract, and successfully date compatible kinksters.
I can’t wait to work with you!
Cassie is a kink and intimacy expert, educator, and relationship coach who has been teaching and presenting on various sex and kink-related subjects since 2008. She is the co-founder of Touch of Flavor, which helps kinky and non-monogamous folks build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world.
Cassie has been featured in publications such as the Huffington Post, The Atlantic, Ozy, and Men’s and Women’s Health. She has also presented at organizations and conferences including MICA College, Dark Odyssey, MsC, CCFF, and DC Leather Pride.
13 Weeks. 5 Modules. 1-on-1 Coaching. Here’s what you’ll learn:
Module 1: Jump-start your kinky dating life.
- We will get you excited about dating again.
- Determine what a compatible partner looks like to you.
- We’ll figure out about your strengths, and establish what’s uniquely alluring about you so that you can attract partners naturally and with confidence.
- We will review your look in preparation for the next stage.
- I’ll personally review your online dating profiles. I’ll give you input on photos and help you rewrite your profile so that you’re attracting interesting, sexy people you actually WANT to date.
Module 2: Find and connect with incredible people.
- Find partners online, and craft messages that get responses (I’ll even help you with individual messages).
- Determine where the best places are in your area for you to find compatible kinksters.
- Create opportunities to connect wherever you go.
- Approach people you find interesting (on and offline), and get phone numbers that actually turn into dates.
Module 3: Flirt naturally, and create powerful sexual attraction.
- Become irresistible instead of trying to make people like you.
- Flirt in a way that matches your personal style, without feeling sleazy.
- Recognize when someone is flirting with you.
- Know when… and how… to touch someone.
- Build powerful sexual attraction with your words and touch.
- Use text messages to flirt and build sexual tension.
Module 4: Create amazing first dates.
- Learn how to someone who interests you for a date (and how to get a yes).
- Choose the perfect date location for yourself and the person you’re asking out.
- Enjoy smooth, fun, natural, exciting conversation.
- Ask questions that create a deep connection with the person sitting across the table,and help you determine if the two of you are compatible.
- Overcome the little mishaps that can (and will) happen on dates.
- Tell if your date enjoyed themselves, and lay the groundwork for a second date before the night even ends.
Module 5: Take it to the next level.
- Learn when (and how) to contact someone after your first date.
- Deepen your emotional and sexual connection with calls and texts.
- Know when and how to bring up kink, and when and how to negotiate play.
- Setup 2nd and 3rd (and more) dates.
What My Clients Are Saying
Cassie helped me move past a horrible break up that ruined me for a long time. I thought that the problems from that bad relationship would keep me from ever having normal romantic relationships again. But working with Cassie has helped me to realize that I deserve to be happy and have healthy relationships. Cassie showed me the tough love I needed to make changes in my life.Ray
After having my consult with Cassie I had zero reservations about going forward with coaching. It wasn’t if I was doing coaching sessions with her, but when. I was convinced after the consult that coaching was something I needed to do. Over the months I have worked with Cassie I have learned so much about dating. She has taught me a different approach to dating that has opened up opportunities I would have never had. For example I would not be talking to the girl I am now if I wouldn’t have had Cassie’s advice on how to ask her out. The new approaches she has taught me, are working. I am a lot more optimistic and confident and I am getting the dates and growing the relationships I want.Michael
How This Works
It all starts with a Breakthrough Consult where we’ll examine if working together would be a good fit.
During your consult we’ll come up with a plan to jump-start your kinky dating life. We’ll:
- Figure out what you truly desire in your dating life and what you are looking for in your future relationships. This will include evaluating your unique sexual and relationship needs.
- Discuss the best ways for you to make connections with potential partners using your strengths, while avoiding your weakness. We’ll also determine the skills that you need to improve to make these connections.
- Get you prepared to have more successful experiences with both in-person and online dating.
- Evaluate your unique attributes and plan how to transform them into successful dating skills.
- Get you positive and excited about dating again and get you out of the house and meeting new people.
If we decide to work together the program is 13 weeks long. It consists of:
- A one-hour launch call, where we’ll finalize any outstanding items from your customized plan and get you started on Module 1.
- Four thirty-minute sessions in the first month after your launch call.
- Nine one-hour sessions every two weeks for the next two months.
In addition to our sessions you’ll also get:
- Unlimited email access to me in-between sessions.
- One non-scheduled 20-minute call with me per month (if needed) to help you through dating emergencies.
- And the option to meet in person with me in the Baltimore area for one of your sessions.
Ready to get started? Book a free consult call.
If you’re ready to jump start your kinky dating life, you can book a free consult call below. During the call we’ll discuss if coaching would be a good fit for you, and come up with a plan to jump-start your kinky dating life.