Find and Attract an Incredible Kinky Partner

Dating coaching by a kinkster, for kinksters.

Dating is hard, especially when your kinky or non-monogamous

You have it all. You’re kinky. You’re smart. You’re successful. And you’re well on the way to having the lifestyle you’ve always pictured.

But the most important piece is missing. You see, you’re single, or perhaps the perpetual secondary. You feel lonely. And when you try to find a serious partner, the challenges seem endless. You’re constantly worrying that you’re going to be single/looking forever, and maybe you’re even starting to wonder if you’re destined to die alone. And you may sometimes lie awake at night wondering where it all went wrong.

You dream of the day you will find an incredible kinky partner of your own. Someone who’s compatible with your relationship style and kinks. Someone(s) you connect with physically, emotionally, and intellectually. Someone to come home to at the end of the day.

The trouble is you often struggle to see how you could ever find a partner. Dating is hard enough in the vanilla world. Dating when you’re kinky has it’s own slew of challenges. And all of the books, blogs, and other advice you’ve seen so far have gotten you nowhere.

It’s not your fault, and you’re not alone.

Now there’s a solution specifically designed for kinksters who want to build extraordinary romantic relationships. The fact that you’re kinky means that you have the capacity to build a the kind of satisfying and fulfilling relationships most nillas can only fantasize about. You just need the right help to get you there.

There’s no question that if you’re serious about creating massive change in your dating life one-on-one coaching is the way to go. But you don’t just need dating coaching. You need kinky dating coaching. You need someone understands the unique challenges you face in trying to find love, and knows how to overcome them.

I’m kinky, poly, and have spent the last ten years helping people just like you. If we choose to work together, I’ll show you how you can find and attract the kinky partner of your dreams and build the incredible romantic relationship(s) that you deserve.

If you would like to see if working together could help you find the kinky partner you desire, simply click the button below. You’ll be taken to my calendar where you can book a free Dating Breakthrough Session. During this session we’ll discuss how I can help you reach your kinky relationship goals. 

I look forward to our conversation!


What People Are Saying


Cassie helped me move past a horrible break up that ruined me for a long time. I thought that the problems from that bad relationship would keep me from ever having normal romantic relationships again. But working with Cassie has helped me to realize that I deserve to be happy and have healthy relationships. Cassie showed me the tough love I needed to make changes in my life.


After having my consult with Cassie I had zero reservations about going forward with coaching. It wasn’t if I was doing coaching sessions with her, but when. I was convinced after the consult that coaching was something I needed to do. Over the months I have worked with Cassie I have learned so much about dating. She has taught me a different approach to dating that has opened up opportunities I would have never had. For example I would not be talking to the girl I am now if I wouldn’t have had Cassie’s advice on how to ask her out. The new approaches she has taught me, are working. I am a lot more optimistic and confident and I am getting the dates and growing the relationships I want.


About Cassie

Cassie is a kink and intimacy expert, educator, and relationship coach who has been teaching and presenting on various sex and kink-related subjects since 2008. She is the co-founder of Touch of Flavor, which helps kinky and non-monogamous folks build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world.

Cassie has been featured in publications such as the Huffington Post, The Atlantic, Ozy, and Men’s and Women’s Health. She has also presented at organizations and conferences including MICA College, Dark Odyssey, MsC, CCFF, and DC Leather Pride.