About Us

We help kinky and non-monogamous folks build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. Learn More

You have it all. You’re kinky. You’re smart. You’re successful. You’re well on the way to having the lifestyle you’ve always pictured. And if you’re found this site, chances are that you’ve realized by now that the most important piece of that puzzle is your romantic relationships.

Maybe you’re single or the perpetual secondary, and you’re looking for incredible kinky partner(s) of your own. Maybe you’re non-monogamous and trying to figure out how to make your open relationships work. Maybe you’re struggling to balance your power exchange relationships and your everyday life. Or maybe you’re just looking to turn an average kinky relationship into an extraordinary and fulfilling one.

You’re not alone. Our romantic relationships are some of the most important things in our lives. And building awesome relationships takes constant work and growth. But unfortunately when you step outside of society’s norms, good relationship advice is hard to come by.

Here’s the thing: Having a different idea of what relationships look like doesn’t make you any less deserving of having relationships that you desire. You deserve happiness. And you deserve the best help you can get to help you build the extraordinary relationships that you’ve always dreamed of.

That’s why we’re here. We’re kinksters with a passion for relationships. Our team is made up of people like you. We understand your lifestyle and the unique challenges you face in trying to find love. We recognize that your gender and orientation may not fit into the “traditional” mold. And we’ve spent ten years helping people like you build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world

Cassie’s Story

Hi! I’m Cassie Fuller, a kink and intimacy expert, educator, and coach. I began teaching in the kink and polyamory communities in 2008. I co-founded TTB Ventures (Touch of Flavor’s parent company) in 2009 with the mission of providing awesome education to kinky and poly folks.

We founded Touch of Flavor itself in 2011 after the release of Fifty Shades of Gray. At Touch of Flavor we spent our first few years focused on educating newbies through media appearances and conferences. We had a ton of fun, and along the way were able to educate both the public and media on sex, intimacy, and kink.

A few things have changed since then.

First, while we still run live classes in the Baltimore metro we now focus on creating resources like blog posts and online courses so that we can help people all over the world.

Second, we realized that while kinky and non-monogamous folks had plenty of places to learn about the best way to tie someone up, they had very few places for relationship advice that addressed their unique challenges. While we love love love sex and kink (and still talk about both); we made it our mission to provide kinky and non-monogamous folks with the information they need to build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. We put out a ton of free material, and I provide personal coaching to kinksters who are serious about finding an incredible kinky partner as well as making massive changes in their existing relationships.

As far as the standard educator spiel: I’ve been featured in publications like the Huffington Post, The Atlantic, Ozy, and Men’s and Women’s Health. I have also presented at organizations and conferences including MICA College, Dark Odyssey, MsC, CCFF, and DC Leather Pride.

If you would like to discuss working with me to build the extraordinary kinky relationships you deserve, click here to learn more about kinky dating coaching, or here to contact me about other types of kinky relationship coaching.